Monday, June 29, 2009

A Tip on How to Embrace Rejection

Here are a few incidents to prepare your mind to handle rejection:

When you are learning to ride a bicycle during your teenage days, does the fear of falling stops you from learning to ride?

How about learning to swim?...does the discomfort of swallowing water during the process or the fear of drowning stops you from learning to swim?

You do feel a certain degree of fear but you just do it because the pain is worth overcoming, right?

The clue is to link some pain or discomfort that you have already experienced and lock it in or remind yourself whenever you are about to get rejected.

Effectively you are tricking your mind that it is not as bad as what you perceive.

Remember, the mind does not differentiate what is real or what is imagined.

Try this..for the next one to two weeks, go to the gym and do a set of routines where you will feel pain in the workout.

Please do a proper set of workout or under the trainer's supervision. You want to feel pain but not to the extend of injuring yourself.

Now, really feel the physical pain.

Take a photo before you start exercising and two weeks later.

When you are alone, practice to superimpose the pain that you experience in the gym with the two photos.

Make a growling noise, clench your fists. In your mind, feel and relive the experience of the pain during the work outs. At the same time look at the two pictures.

When you can relive the intensity of the pain, make a unique action with your fingers, say putting the thumb and the little finger together.

This action will be your trigger action to trick your mind that whenever you feel rejected or is about to be rejected, the gym experience with the photos will over-ride your thoughts.

To reinforce the technique, imagine that your left eye is looking at the situation where you are about to be rejected and the right eye is looking at when you are at the gym.

Slowly, merge the two views together and then do your finger action.

The lousy feeling of being rejected will feel very manageable by then.

There you have it.

Every time you are being rejected, make the growling sound, clench your fists, recall the pictures, view the two scenes with each eye, then merge and finally, do the finger action.

You should feel that being rejected is not that bad after all.

In fact you may be looking forward to being rejected as your mind can now accept willingly the wise age old saying..."no pain, no gain."

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

"pampalungkot" Sad Love Quotes para sa mga EMO

“I love you” doesn’t really mean that I want you to be mine. In fact, it’s another way of saying, “I’m happy to see you happy with someone new even if it’s killing me.” So I guess I love you.

I always knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh. But I never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry.

Before, I asked God to give me someone special to love. I found you then lost you. I asked God why and He answered, “But my child, the one you asked for asked for somebody else.”

It’s so easy to play with love, so easy to fool someone, so easy to make someone cry. But it’s so hard if you’re the one who’s played with, fooled and the one who cried.

It’s hard not to love you, it’s hard not to care and it’s hard to live without you. But I have to try cause it’s harder to bear the pain of knowing you don’t feel the same.

I’ve come to realize that destiny can hurt a person as much as it can bless then I found myself wondering why of all the people in the world I can fall in love with, I fell for someone who can never be mine.

It hurts to say goodbye to a person you love knowing that life won’t be the same without him. But it’s better to give up rather than to fight knowing that you’re the only one fighting.

Sometimes I get so happy being with you that I just wanna hug you. But then I get scared that you will hug me back. And then it gets too damn hard when you decide it’s already time to let go.

One day, love and friendship met. Love asked, “Why do you exist when I already exist?” Friendship smiled and said, “To put a smile where you leave tears.”

Some people love not really wishing to end up together. Some people leave not really willing to go. I love not expecting to be loved back. I leave not because I know I’ll be followed. I love cause I love. I leave cause I let go.

No more crying, I can’t cry anymore. Don’t take my hand this time, just go. And please don’t look back cause I know if you do, I would come running back to you.

No matter how loud I laugh, I’m still not happy. No matter how hard I cry, the sadness inside grows. The more people love me, the more I feel empty. I just need you to love me for all the pain to go.

I’m not afraid of ghosts, I’m not afraid of disasters and I have no fear in death. But there’s one thing I’m really afraid of. It’s the time you’ll stop loving me.

When you love someone, you give everything without thinking twice, deny the truth, believe in lies, do crazy things that you can’t explain and cry over things that hurt you but still stay and say, “I’m okay.”

I never thought I would dream about you. In my dream, you said you love me too. Now I wake up and find you. I want you to tell me those words all over again but what the heck? You just keep on waking me up.

It’s nice to know that you’re sweet enough to say that you’d pick someone just like me to spend your life with. But it’s just so painful to see that you’re spending your life with someone who’s just like me but not me.

I never thought this would happen, I really didn’t know. But I guess it’s better if you just let go. I’m really gonna miss you and everything you did for me. Cause as long as he owns you, this love could never be.

There are times that I’m about to give up cause there’s no way I can make you mine. But why is it that every time I’m ready to let go, I end up falling for you all over again?

How do I say goodbye to someone I never had? Why do tears fall for someone who was never mine? Why do I miss someone who I was never with? And why do I love someone whose love was never mine?

I can say I’m fine when you don’t see me cry. I can say I can move on when I couldn’t even try. I can say I’m happy when I just want to die. But I can’t say I still love you when you said goodbye.

I feel like finally, it’s over. It doesn’t hurt anymore. Finally, I could smile again. But every once in a while, it comes back. I remember how I lost the only person I’ve ever loved and then I realize I still do.

I wonder why just when I learned to wait, it was when you never came. I wonder why just when I learned to laugh, it was when you made me cry. And I wonder why just when I’ve learned to love you, it was when you said goodbye.

You think I’ll cry? You think I’ll breakdown? Damn, you’re wrong! I knew your games before, I just played along. If you think I’m stupid, yup, you’re right! I fell for a player with his game I couldn’t fight.

How can I go on pretending that everything is fine, nothing has changed, nothing’s still possible and some things are still the same when after I convince myself I can forget you, I start falling for you again?

One day, I’d make you mine. One day, you’d say I’m fine. One day, you’d realize that love is right before your eyes. One day, when things are true, it’s gonna be me and you. But too bad you make it seem that one day is just a dream.

Someone once asked me, “Have you ever fallen in love?” Then I answered, “Of course.” Then they gave me another question, “Did it hurt?” I thought of you and cried. I told them, “Yes, very much.”

Why are the words "I love you" so easily pronounced yet so hard to say? It's because it's hard to admit to yourself that the person you love might not feel the same way as you do.


nakaka sad talaga.. kayo ba na sad din?

Friday, May 8, 2009

Solusyon sa mahinang kita

1. hingi ka po ng Guidance kay God para magkaroon ka ng lakas ng loob at maisagawa at makapag-isip ng maganda/mapalago ang negosyo mo. be positive po always sa everyday day to day basis. and be good to your customers kahit nakaaway mo sa labas at naiinis ka na sa kanila pero pagpasok ng shop mo at nagrent syempre bossing ang tawag ko sa mga ganyan... pero its more advisable to be friendly and be diplomatic to all your nieghborhoods even to tambays. sa amin naranasan ko na murahin ako "PUT***MO" bumagsak anak ko dahil sa L*NT*K na walang kwentang computer shop nyo... sa loob loob ko alam ko na dahilan sa ugali palang nung magulang panis na kinabukasan aabutin ng anak nya...

2. make a wealthy healthy lifestyle.. smoking is bad to your health, drinking too much is bad too your health, over fatigue stress is bad to your health... pag hindi ka healthy hindi mo magagampanan ng maganda ang negosyo mo.

3. learn to save your money and mag-invest ka in reasonable prices.

4. put all games na pwedeng laruin ng customer nyo bawal kung bawal ang private server pero kung kikita ka po bakit hindi, ipagsa Diyos mo nalang muna na balang araw pag may magandang laro na sila na pupwede mo nang tanggalin ang mga private servers. tsaka lahat ng available games na nasa shop mo pwede maging source ng income ng loadcentral mo dahil bibili sila sayo nga gamecards make sure may laman lagi load mo or my gamecards ka.

5. lagay ka po ng softwares like photoshop, ms frontpage,ms and open office that can support all ms office versions, pdf editor, winzip, mirc, camfrog, ym, msn messenger, chika, divx, firefox, etc... minsan kailangan din ng load ng mga chatters... para tatawagan nila sa phone ung kachat nila or ung relatives nila.

6. all particular computer related na pwede mong pagkakakitaan. ioffer mo silang lahat..
a. bluetooth, datacable, infrared, card reader. disable mo mga usb drives mo. para pagtrasfer ng mga photo's, mp3's, video's pwede icharge mo sa kanila. tipong less 10mb 1 pesos, 50mb 5pesos, 100mb 10 pesos, 1gb 100 pesos.
b. scanner, printer, digi cam combo.. dito malaki rin kita ko.. especially pag may nag papaedit sa akin sa photoshop para akong si dr. calayan pakikinisin ko ung tagihawatin face nila, tapos ung iba kuya pwede mo ba ako paputiin dyan.. why digicam? pag nakita mo ung papascan labo naman nito paginiscan pagpinicturan po kita ang ganda/guwapo mo sa pic mo.. pwede pa kita bihisan ng nakabarong necktie pa sa id picture mo.. o kaya naman pagpersonal/group shot additional charge yan dahil babaguhin mo ung background nila pwede sa puerto, bora, palawan, canada, hongkong..
c. webcam and headset. clear shots more comfortable for their relatives to see them and headset din po mahalaga din po yan para makapag usap at magkarinigan po sila ng maayos.. in my case po hindi ko masyadong maioffer dahil sadyang maingay po mga gamers ko. (solutions new rooms for them pero cost of renovation para sa separate chatroom around 15-25k.) tsaka na muna to.
d. cd burn - yes piracy again mp3? games? audio? movies? scandal -- bad.. cd burn pero as a souvenir gifts para padala nila ung mga photos and videos mo ilagay sa cd or dvd with personal case pati ung cd cover, remembrance ng kanilang project, thesis, programs, exams, documents.
e. id maker, paper cutter, dapat kasama sa to sa b. pero ihiwalay ko na rin. kasi pwede ka rin mag sideline ng mga pvc id(nasa 8k ata complete equipment nito,) hindi lang target ang mga schools even mga peers yan ang ilagay mo pvc id, pwede din gawing souvenirs di ba ok din? tapos meron din mga customize cutters for 1 x 1, 2 x2 ewan ko lang sa 3r kung meron kasi medyo matagal kapag paper cutter eh.. tapos pwede rin ung calling card, invitaion card... be creative nalang..
f. eto pwede din patok sa school at mga bagets ung gagawa ka ng web/html editing,, kahit ung sa pag edit lang ng friendster, paglagay ng video sa youtube, pag organize ng multiply site.
g. xerox machine add income din to eh.
h. healthy foods and drinks candies. messy hanap ka ng extrang tagalinis. di ba parang may mini store sa shop mo..(ay di pala related sa computer to pero paggutom ka sa kakalaro ng computer o kaya sa tagal ng kakaretoke ng mukha mo sa photoshop related pa rin ba hehehe basta offer eh. tsaka ang pagkain para sa health mo na rin)

7. know all the updates hardware and softwares, news baka iraraid na pala ang lugar mo papt... sa mga updates sabihin na natin ung mga virus, o kaya naman may bago palang alternative para sa deepfreeze, ung mga protective measures mo just incase magcorrupt ung windows mo may easiest way para lahat na ng games madali mo mairerestore norton ghost or acronis... hardwares as games update and specs needs dapat alam kung san ka kukuha ng affordable place to buy.. for me 2 years outright replacement warranty ng QUBE is the best.. no waste of money in 2 years... after 2 years sell mo na ung mga units pag ok pa use them.. then make sure you renovate your shop para mamaximize ung usage ng remaining space. adding more units can attract more customers pero in your case pag konti lang pumapasok na customer sa 7 units mo i think you need to look for a better place.

8. be active with forums, events, and gathering tulad po ng ULOP at ang internet cafe congress. marami ka pong matutunan sa kanila. makikita po ninyo ang iba't ibang ideya sa hilig nyong negosyo. sa totoo lang po napakarami ng mga internet cafe ngayon kaya give the best offer you can by the help of others and their ideas.

9. spend time with yourself kasi parang pagmamahal mo na po sa sarili ang pagbibigay oras sa sarili mo. baka po kasi trabaho ka ng trabaho nakalimutan mo na ienjoy ang sarili mo kahit magbeach, nood ng sine, out of town kasama ang pamilya mo.. kaya po tayo nagwowork or business para magkaroon ng makain at maenjoy ang sarili pati ang pamilya natin...

10. share your blessings, pag aniversary ng shop mo pakain ka sa mga customers mo. then give aways. lagi ka po pasalamat sa Panginoon natin na araw araw ay nabubuhay ka binbigyan ng pagkakataon para makapag isip na mahalin ang sarili mo. dahil ang pagmamahal sa sarili ay isang magandang paraan para mahalin mo ang Diyos, pamilya, negosyo mo at ang mga taong nakapaligid sayo.

Friday, March 27, 2009

MiramaX-Magus Summer Free Game!!!

as requested by TECH magkakaroon na naman po tayo ng unlimited game time from 7:00AM to 7:00PM March 28, 2009...

Feature Events: wala na ko maisip basta puro laro nalang

Ragnarok War of Emperium: 2:00PM to 4:00pm... Valkyrie Player samahan nyo kami sa pakikipaglaban para sating karangalan...

Magus Ragnarok Summer Game: wala pa pong date kung kelan tayo mag ro rollback para sa bagong simula, so far wala pa rin po tayong bagong GAME MASTER para sa MagusRO...

New MiramaX members: i welcome po natin sila lalung lalu na yung mga DOTA Girls ahehehe...

Magus Net: hindi po kasama ang MiramaX II sa libreng game time dun lang po libre sa Magus Gaming Center

kita kits nalang po tayo sa saturday, I'm going to have a vacation sa cebu march 31 to April 7 kayo na muna bahala sa MiramaX mga MagusMembers......
have a nice summer vacation!!!


Edwin P. Diaz
MiramaX System and Network Administrator

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Gaming Trashtalk

Maraming style ang pag-trashtalk:

The Konyo.

Mga inglisero sa gaming world. Minsan tag-lish. Kunwari, "" or "moron" or "." Minsan naman ta-trashtalk pero sablay: " ka noob at looser ka!!!" Ano yun, maluwag??? Minsan naman "didn't you saw my killing spree?" Anakngpatola.. mag-aral ka muna ng grammar mo hijo bago ka mag-ingles.

The Cusser.

Ito yung wala na alam sabihin kundi , , , put*ng in* mo, f*ck you, atbp. Marami atang hinanakit sa mundo tong mga to.

The Gay.

Eto naman ang hilig magsabi ng "b@ding ka! b@kla ka! b@ding kaaaa!" Ito yung mga talunan. Dahil asar-talo na sila eh sasabihan nilang b@kla ang kalaban dahil hindi nila mapatay. Nyahahaha!

The Taunter.

Tong mga to mahilig sa asaness, asa ka boy, asa naman tong gag0ng to, hanggang panaginip na lang ang pagkapanalo mo sakin. Yung mga walang magawa kundi mang-asar sa kalaban. Kaso ingat lang mga tsong, pag nang-taunt kayo, siguraduhing may ibubuga kayo kasi baka mapahiya!!

The Superior.

Wala na sila ibang sinasabi kundi "WEAK KA!" Kala mo naman anlakas lakas nila. Pero infairness meron naman talaga malalakas eh. Kaso kadalasan yung mga nagsasabi ng WEAK eh sila mismo yung weak, dini-demoralize ata nila yung kalaban.

The Backstabber.

Ito yung mga sinisi yung kakampi dahil sa pagkatalo. Kakampi na mismo tina-trashtalk pa wahahaha! Sasabihin nila " kasi kakampi namin noobs!!" o kaya pagbibintangan nila ng "yung kampi namin, benta sa kalaban!" Nagdahilan pa e, tanggapin na lang kasi pagkatalo!

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

No more LAGGGGGG

Goodbye DIGITEL a.k.a. bwisiTEL, DCTEL

at last nakabit na din ang PLDT ko tapos na ang sobrang lag sa ragnarok at mabagal na video streaming sa youtube

10.02 mbps PLDT Empire
NGN line (next generation network)

Friday, September 19, 2008

Enemies of a pc shop/ lan shop owner

Enemies of a pc shop/ lan shop owner

1.Keyboard logger installers and password thieves.
2.P2P installer or any download freak. Mahilig maginstall ng Limewire o Bearshare from USB.
3.Solicitors (for medical, religious, funeral, youth, fraternal/ sorority, etc. causes)
4.Rate Canvassers / Spies/ Surveyors. Minsan nagpapangap na mamimigay ng Free Game CDs of this or that New Game but will ask for information like brand or specs of your PC or name and contact number of the owner.
5.?Botak? gang members. ?Kuya memeya na bayad, tuloy lang oras ko, kakain lang/ may bibilhin lang po.?
6.Abusive Government agents: fake NBI agents; Barangay Tanods, Kotong cops
7.Hold uppers/ Thieves of cellphone, web cams, headset
8.Saboteurs who hacks into a PC and disable a shop?s internet connection
9.Mga mahilig magpalibre o mag-pa double discount i.e feeling close o feeling suki effect
10.People with communicable diseses: i.e. Conjunctivitis (sore eyes); SARS, meninngo occimia, etc.
11.Counterfeit money or Unusable money (pilas or faded bills)
12.Bolt Cutter Gang

annoying customers
- medyo broad ito kaya in general na lang. (kuripot, maangas, sosyal, VIP, etc)

salisi
-eto na yung mga magnanakaw.. pero mga small time lang dito. webcam and other small item and mandurukot lang. and bikes nga pala an anka-park sa labas..

thief and incompetent employees

- mga lan owners na di marunong makisama, lalo na sa price per hour, mga mamamatay presyo!
- mga lan owners na mandaraya ng kuryente nyeta yang mga yan!!!
- mga lan owners na manggagaya ng gimick, di mag-isip ng sarili nila #$#%#$ nila.
- mga lan owners na kunyari original gamit nila di naman pala, o original man..OS lang yung iba application ja-peke, di nag-iisip ang kumag nananakot pa.

- Copper thieves. In fact, galit din ako sa scavengers, kinakalat ang basura para makuha lang ang kailangan nila.
- Conservative Politicians lalo na malapit na elections
- Salisi gang. Kunyari aabalahin ka sa pagtype o pgprint tapos may kasama siya na ibang pinagaabalahan.
- Us lan-owners, wala naman sa atin gustong malugi once pumasok na sa biz na ito kaya survival of the fittest

tambay?
yung tipong magpapalamig lang, tapos gagamit pa ng cr mo sabay tsupi.. ano ko, jollibee?

AMUYONG or Hakot Boyz..

May papasok na isang grupo ng mga kabataan say, 5 to 7 people tapos kundi dalawa lang ang aarkila ay isa lang ang gagamit at maglalaro, yung iba, ay taga sigaw lang or medyo nagkakaingayan na pag nasa kainitan na ng game, kaya pag may pumapasok ng more than 3 persons ay tinatanong agad namin kung maglalaro at ilan so that yung iba like nga ng sinabi ko kanina ay maiiwasan ang ganyang situwasyon.

PERO, nangyari ang isang scenario na nung me pumasok na 5 at ang maglalaro lamang ay isa sinabihan naming di pwedeng tambayan or yung hindi maglalaro ay pwedeng lumabas na lang muna (maganda naman ang pakiusap namin since ang pwesto namin ay maliit lamang) aba! nilayasan ba naman ang aming shop!

Yang mga ganyang mga tao ang dapat ay i-ban sa mga shops kasi nung pinayagan naming one time na magpapasok ng more than 5 person at isa lang ang naglaro ay ninakawan kami ng bola lang naman ng mouse. Ganyan ang mga attitude ng mga kabataan or M.O. ng ilang sindikato ba yang matatawag? Kaya iniiwasan na naming magpapasok esp. mga bagong mukha ay inaalertuhan na namin ang mga bantay

Thursday, September 11, 2008

MiramaX II now Open




5 days of Hell

sa wakas after 5 days ng pangungulit ko sa digitel naawa na din at ikinabit ang aking internet sa ngayon naka open na po ang miramax II

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Internet Cafe owners VS Customers Part II

Reklamo ng mga Kostumer sa isang i-Cafe

1.Kuya Lag! (di maiiwasan lalo na kung maraming applications naka-open tapos naglalaro ng Dota, minsan may hidden downloading pa)

2.Kuya ayaw gumana ng mouse o keyboard! (minsan kasi binabatak ang cable ng mouse o keyboard lumuluwag tuloy sa terminal isa pa kung bakit yung iba binabaligtad pa at pinapaikot ang bola ng mouse isama na rin yung sobra gigil sa keyboard)

3 Kuya ang init!! (paano hindi ka maiinitan lima ang kasama mo na nakapalibot sayo nakikinood sa susunod mag-isa ka na lang tututukan pa kita ng fan)

4 Kuya itigil mo muna oras ko! (bakit??? kasi daw hindi sya maka-connect sa internet i checked my connections and test it sa digitel… i got normal speed hayyyz yun pala maintenance ang friendster at may problema sa e-games nag-emergency maintenance waaaaaa)

5.person1- kuya pano ba mag register…
ako- may email ka ba??)
person1- wala pa e… toinks

6.ang baho ng katabi ko pwd bang palabasin

7.kuya wala po ba kaung friendster d2? ayaw po gumana ng friendster d2 lipat nalang po ako… (i checked d address bar http//www.freindster.com/ diyos miyo marimar 30+ minutes na cya nkaupo mali pala speling nya)

8.grupo pumasok- kuya may friendster po kyo?
-lalaki- kuya pa rent open time lang. pag labas, kuya ilang oras na ko?
-bantay- 2 hours ka na!
-lalaki- hala sabi ko one hour lang ako pano yan wala akong pambayad!

-lalaki pumasok- pa-rent. after one minute dirediretso lumabas ng shop while texting na parang wala lang.
-kuya pa stop time muna tawag ako ng nanay ko eh!

-babae nag PM sken- ur internet sucks! shit sayang oras ko dito!
ako- ano po problema maam?
babae- (typing friendster.com while almost hampasing the keyboard) tignan mo sobrang bagal ng internet nyo ayaw mag friendster!
ako- maintenance po friendster ngayon.
babae- (sabay layas)

-babae with a small kid sobrang gugulo sa shop, playing with chairs, shouting, parang playground, lht ng ibang clients nakatingin n sa kanila.
babae- (dedma d na nahiya basta kausap nya fafa nyang foreigner)

-kalat- makikita mo kung saan saan pero yung basurahan mo na malaki ni wala ka makita na nagtapon.

-kuya- alam mo ba password ko nakalimutan ko kasi?
me- sana binigay mo sken pass mo para matulungan kita.

-nanay may kachat na anak sa ibang bansa, every minute pa assist ng pa assist. yung cam nawla! hindi ko sya marinig! ay yung cam ulet! yung cam nya nde ko mkita! hindi nya ko marinig sa call! bakit ang bagal ng webcam? ay paassist ulet nawala yung kausap ko eh! (buti sana kung one or twice lang kaso tinuro mo na hindi p rin magawa the next time)

-kuya paprint
me- ay! webpage ito hindi ko masasabi kung ilang pages ito lalabas! customer- okey lang kuya kht ilan!
pagkaprint- 20 pages
customer- hala! wala ako pambayad nyan!(amp! naman!)

- papascan- paedit ng NBI
me- hindi po kme nageedit ng mga public documents, scan lang po talga.
customer- ganun ba? bka pwdng edit lang ung pangalan lang
me- hindi po tlga sir eh
customer- madali lang naman to eh.
me- sorry sir hindi po tlga try nyo na lagn po sa iba.
customer- pero marunong ka magedit?
me- (para manahimik na sinabi ko) hindi po eh
customer- pag alis bumubulong, bobo ka pla eh!

- kuya magkano pascan ng pic sa cellphone?(wapak! upload yun diba?)

- babae- magcchat ako sa asawa ko nasa ibang bansa
me- may account na po kayo sa yahoo?
babae- wala p e.
me- cge po assist ko kyo sa paggawa, ano po ID nung asawa nyo?
babae- hindi ko alam, hanapin na lang nten sa internet pangalan nya!(wakokokok!)

- 2 lalaki pumasok tuluy-tuloy-
me-(hinabol ko) pssttt ano sa inyo?
1 lalaki- ano din sayo?
(muntik ko na mapalo ng baseball bat)

- internet connection na dc
me- maam / sir disconnected lang po ang internet, reconnect lang mga 1 minute.

wala pang 1 min

customer- kuya bket ayaw mag friendster
chatter- kuya walang YM?
player- kuya ayaw pumasok sa RAN!, Ragnarok!
barumbado- (nagPM sken) mga g*g* kayo! wla kwenta!

me- Maghintay kayo!!!!!!!!!